What is love like? Almost always unexpected. She catches us by surprise, invades our calm and settled life and sets up a complete mess there, confusing our thoughts, plans and actions. At such moments, it seems to us that we are completely confused in ourselves and in our feelings, and nothing can help us anymore. But this is not so. Still, some kind of grammar of love exists. And for those who know its basics and imagine what love really is, it will be much easier to deal with this mess.
When we fall in love, we firmly know that no one has ever experienced anything like this before us. This is so and not. Love is different. People use the same word for completely different states. But still, the nature of these states is the same.
What is love
Love drama
She is very emotional and explosive. It knocks down, like the first tried cigarette, full of quarrels and scandals, jealousy to the point of absurdity, constant clarification of relationships, a series of endless tears and promises. Such love happens, as a rule, at a young age and ends with a nervous breakdown, a complete departure from reality or dyed hair that causes color.
It is through such love that we learn to love. All for the first time, so I want to experience everything. And at any cost and as quickly as possible.
Love hate
This love is an eternal quarrel. The words “I hate you” sound much more often than “I love you”, and hugs are more like strangulation. We run barefoot along the crap steps of the dark staircase, smash the phones against the wall, shout that we hate and do not want to lose at the same time. Such love is when, on New Year's Eve, instead of wanting to find the "Man of Your Dreams, " we just want everyone to finally fall behind …
Love-hate is the result of an inability to build normal human relationships. From such love, wrinkles and nervous breakdowns quickly appear. Such relationships have everything: passion, goodbyes, despair, excitement and self-destruction. Perhaps not only boredom.
Love
Everything is quiet and calm: no beating utensils, hacked accounts on social networks, calls from former ones and promises of scratched eyes in case of treason. In such relationships, everything is based on mutual trust, which is already in the default settings.
Such love is very tenacious, with it you can make children and create a family that is ideal for advertising toothpaste.
But she is very monotonous. Therefore, you need to try not to “get into” it in your youth, when you still really want passion, a scratched back and scarlet pink petals on silk sheets.
Chameleon love
In such relationships there is everything: love, grief, quarrel, and hope. They feel good together, but not enough to get bored. They quarrel, but not so much as to part. They know each other well enough and yet they are able to surprise.
If she hurt him, she would become much worse than him. And he cannot find words to explain why he is with her. In the morning she brings him coffee to bed, watches him sleep and is afraid to lose him. When he dreams that she is sitting in a cafe with another man, he tosses and turns and wakes up in horror …
They know what love is, but they don’t know what kind of feeling they have. They don’t know how long they will live and why they love each other so much. And sometimes they generally think that no one knows.
