How often in life do we meet rude people? Yes, probably every day. They are everywhere: in the subway, on the bus, in the store, and even at work. Such people manage to spoil their mood, lower their self-esteem and be rude in just 5 minutes. Today we’ll talk about ill-mannered people, how to deal with them, and methods of re-education.
Definition
In the old days an ill-mannered person was called an ignoramus. That is, he did not know what he was doing. The meaning “ill-mannered person” is a poorly educated person who does not give herself and others an account of her actions and deeds. In Russia, such people were treated condescendingly. After all, they were usually commoners. But today the meaning of the word "ill-mannered" (man) has changed. People believe that a person who has a poor upbringing is considered ill-bred. Moreover, intellectual development today is simply out of the question. A person who does not know etiquette and does not know how to behave in society will be considered ill-mannered. But if a teenager cannot quickly multiply 3 by 9, they will not dub him.
Now, let's understand the difference between what kind of man is ill-mannered: ignorant or ignorant. The first concept means an illiterate commoner, but the second - just an ill-mannered person.
Synonyms for the phrase "rude man"
The Russian language is diverse. Each of the words can be found similar. What synonyms are suitable for the phrase "ill-mannered people"? Well, of course, the first thing that comes to mind is the concept of "lout." Rude people who do not know how to behave in society often get such a nickname. Nahal is another synonym for an ill-mannered person. Moreover, this word has a pronounced meaning. Nakhal is called a difficultly ill-mannered person, and that person who behaves with his ignorance is very defiant.
Which person is considered ill-mannered
People who have not received proper education most often remain ignorant for life. Of course, there are exceptions to any rule. But for the most part, ill-mannered people are those who do not know how to behave in society. And as you know, manners are instilled in man by experience. So ill-educated people simply did not have a chance to get a decent education in terms of a culture of behavior. Yes, perhaps mom taught the boy to open the door for the girl and that the hat should be removed indoors. But she did not explain to him what kind of fork it is necessary to eat fish, that it was indecent to put elbows on the table during a meal. A man who will revolve in high society will not come out of such an uneducated manners plan. Indeed, gaps in education are difficult to fill in adulthood.
But ill-mannered people are called not only those who do not know etiquette. Most often, a person receives such a nickname for rude speech and uncivilized behavior. That is, a healthy man who does not give way to an old woman on a bus can be considered ill-mannered.
How to learn to find rude people in a crowd
Surprisingly, ignoramus can be recognized from afar. You just need to know what to pay attention to. Uneducated people very often look alike. Firstly, it manifests itself in clothing. She may just be untidy. An uncoated shirt, dirty shoes, a torn jacket automatically indicate that a person has no culture of presenting his personality. Secondly, an ill-mannered person gives out a dialect. Moreover, it is not even necessary to listen to the words, you do not need to know what the person is saying, it will be enough to hear how he does it. Loud emotional speech betrays an ill-mannered person with a rhinestone, as well as a coarse drunk voice. The low, ever giggling baritone also does not bode well. And thirdly, of course, sometimes one involuntarily has to be a listener of someone else's too loud conversation. And now, if a mate slips through it every two words, it is clear that nothing good needs to be expected from the speaker.
Why does a person grow up ill-bred
All problems must be sought in childhood. An ill-mannered man - an ignoramus - was not like that from birth. His parents, relatives and circumstances made him such. Most often, the problem of an ill-mannered person lies in the fact that he was not liked. If adults did not pay attention to the baby, then he tried to attract their views to his person in various ways. Perhaps he even went to extreme measures. Soon, he developed these actions into a habit. An adult brought up in this spirit no longer knows how to get the attention of his opponent if he is not rude to him or using force.
Selfish children also grow ill-bred, over whom there was excessive custody. Such a child thinks that he is the center of the universe, and does not accept the situation when other people try to put him in his place.
How to communicate with ill-mannered people
Of course, you should not endure an unfair or even rude attitude towards yourself. If there are rude people on your life path, the first thing you should try to do is not to respond to rudeness with rudeness. After all, you are higher, why lower your bar. Such behavior can pleasantly shock an ill-mannered person, and he will be able to find out that not all people in the world are opposed to him.
If it is possible not to communicate with an ill-mannered person, then do not communicate. Why do you need to re-educate someone? This process is complex and lengthy, and one session of an unprofessional psychotherapist in your person will not help. Most likely, this person will be able to spoil the mood and will ruin your nerves. Just smile at him, but don't keep up the conversation.
