They say that a person can create a feeling of complete peace and immense happiness in his soul only. Since their appearance on Earth, people have been searching for the answer to the question: “What is the meaning of life? How to become happy? ” And this is natural. Satisfaction with one’s fate is closely interconnected with the concept of happiness, the necessary conditions for which are well-being factors. This applies to various areas of human life and involves a harmonious combination of its individual elements: emotional, social, intellectual, physical, spiritual and career.
Family is a reliable rear
No one will argue with this. Happiness necessarily includes social well-being. An important role is played by close people who give us psychological support. These are marital and intrafamilial relations, friendships.
The family serves as a support and rear. Here, a person is charged with strength and positive energy. Friends help him achieve his goals and enjoy pleasant moments in the midst of everyday routine. The one who does not have quarrels and discord in the house, who is surrounded by loving people who encourage his growth and development, is the true master of his fate. His life is filled with communication, love, success and mutual support. Social well-being is a solid foundation of relationships and love that everyone wants to build.
The sun paints the earth, and man - labor
One of the main factors of moral satisfaction is the availability of work. This concept often becomes a dilemma: what should be in the foreground - professional activity or family? Not only the fact of paid and decent work is important, but also its psychological side in terms of diversity, meaningfulness and independence of work, its social value and emotional climate. Professional activity in an unhealthy relationship with colleagues or management has not brought anyone pleasure.
Who does not work, he does not rest
Speaking about work, do not forget about leisure. Doing crafts, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, outdoor activities, visiting cafes, restaurants, clubs, museums, concerts, theaters, exhibitions, cinema … This list goes on and on. Hobbies are opportunities for self-expression, scope for activity, communication with like-minded people and a kind of outlet. Sometimes it is more important than work. In theory, wealthy people have more opportunities to do what they love, but in reality this is not always the case. Some do not have enough free time, while others simply do not need it. The choice, as well as the state of well-being - this is the determining factor.
Money - freedom or fetters?
In today's world, a full life is unthinkable without a good income. Comfortable housing, necessary household items, household appliances, varied and wholesome food, quality education and even medical care, not to mention rest - all this, whatever one may say, rests on money! Financial condition determines the majority of opportunities in the implementation of their desires. Material well-being cannot be called successful if there is not enough money to satisfy basic basic needs.
It would seem that happiness is still needed when there is financial security? How many people work all day long with one goal - to increase deposits in bank accounts and improve material well-being! Sometimes there is no time left for family and communication with friends and time. However, no matter how the money is associated with the satisfaction of needs and social status, they affect the well-being of a person to certain limits. With a busy schedule and stress, nervous breakdowns and depression are inevitable. And then what is happiness?
How to attract well-being?
It so happened that money plays an important role in life. It is not easy to be poor and happy. In order to get all the benefits, including material ones, for centuries people have been honoring and passing on to different generations various traditions and rituals for attracting positive energies to the family and home. They believed in certain signs and chose their symbol of well-being.
To a new family
The home represents the harmony and well-being of the family. In this regard, a very beautiful and moving ceremony is held at weddings. Mothers of the newlyweds pass a piece of fire to the newly made hearth keeper, lighting her candle, symbolizing family warmth. At this moment, sincere words and good wishes sound, admonishing the young husband and wife for a long and happy life. Music sounds, the lights are dimmed, small round candles are distributed in advance to all guests. Standing with lit lights around a young one, everyone says kind words. The presenter ends the speech with a wish to the newlyweds to bring heat, love, unity and warmth through all the years of their happy marriage. The bride takes the candles according to the custom as a keepsake, as a sign of a hot home and saving the family from adversity.
By the way, a successful marriage and abundance promise an orange. In Feng Shui, four fresh fruits or dummies should be placed in the family zone. This will help attract a future husband, besides a rich one. Eating oranges contributes to the attraction of love.
To new home
When moving into a new house, superstitious people first let a cat into the apartment. This is done so that none of the residents become a victim of the new building. It is typical for a cat to take on negative energy. In the old days in the castles, noble people walled up one of the commoners in the walls to save their loved ones from misfortunes. So, intuitively, some older people are reluctant to change their home for a new home.
Any housewife knows that the smell of pies in a new house guarantees well-being, home-style, comfort, peace and quiet.
It is believed that a stray stray dog brings homeowners prosperity and well-being, and if you drive it away, then you can not avoid trouble. Figurines and figures of a faithful friend of a person attract luck. Some to protect them from unkind people install them in apartments and even in offices.
To protect the house from material problems, a money tree is grown in it. Figurines of goldfish, three-legged toad also activate the energy of wealth. Another popular attribute of happiness, wealth, fun and prosperity is the laughing Buddha or Hottey. There is a belief that if you rub his stomach 300 times, then the most secret desire must certainly come true. Other symbols of family well-being and good luck in the house are a horseshoe, cornucopia, elephant, butterfly, deer, horse, ficus, a pair of pigeons, a pair of duck-mandarin ducks.
How to activate the symbol of well-being?
In order for the attributes to work, you must use them correctly. For example, a three-legged toad cannot be placed in the kitchen (it’s hot there) and in the bedroom (there’s a sleepy atmosphere). The elephant is placed so that it draws positive energy and all the good into the house with a trunk from the street. When a horseshoe is hung on a door, its “horns” are directed upwards to resemble a bowl, which in turn also symbolizes well-being. In Russia, for some reason, this is done the opposite and leads to the opposite - losses and ruin. Moreover, a true find of a horseshoe on the road brings true happiness.
According to legend, the Devil in the form of a horse got one blacksmith and imposed dark thoughts and deeds on him. But he didn’t run into that … The peasant didn’t fall for tricks, managed to “shoe” a demon, and then he nailed a horseshoe on his door so that the “horned” remembered the lesson. So it was customary to hang horseshoes at the entrance to scare away evil spirits.
Chinese lanterns
The spectacle invented by the Chinese - the launch of multi-colored lanterns into the sky - fascinates and tunes in a good wave. People make wishes. It seems to them that even the world is becoming cleaner and kinder. Observation of the flickering lights floating in the abyss of the starry sky or towards the sun and blowing the negative brings prosperity and success.
Are children the meaning or the flowers of life?
Adults are in a hurry somewhere, striving for something and constantly striving for something. With all this, for many of them, the main meaning of existence is children. That's a moot point. Someone constantly talks about the desire to give the child the best, all that the parent himself did not have in childhood. And there are those who take the position of "giving the best to children as much as possible, " or even not pampering at all, so as not to grow an egoist.
To ensure the well-being of children, parents should first of all create a happy family life as an example to their children. When they grow up, they will repeat the family model in their personal lives. No need to exist as a sacrifice to yourself. Do not forget that the parent must have personal space, interests and the possibility of self-improvement. It is necessary to create conditions for choice and development for children. It is best to find some balance in order to remain an authority and a role model for their descendants.
Wise parable
One merry sage met on his way a man who barely dragged his legs, bearing a huge overwhelming burden. When a passerby asked what he was doing, the poor man replied that he was dooming himself to torment in the name of the happiness of his children and grandchildren, following the example of his ancestors. Then the sage asked if at least one of them had ever been happy in the family. The exhausted father replied that he was not, but his grandchildren and children will certainly live a worthy life! From the old man, he received the following answer: “A man who does not know letters will never teach to read, and no mole will be able to raise an eagle. First you need to learn how to accept the gift of well-being yourself, and when you know the happiness of life, then you will understand how to give it to your future descendants! ” You must admit that many of us have never thought about this. People do not live, but exist, driving themselves with a crazy rhythm of life.
Physical well-being
A successful and intellectually developed person knows how to maintain his health. Useful habits, healthy lifestyle, work, rest and nutrition. Such people are happy with their life and are full of plans; they always have enough energy to realize their plans.
