“I like your smell” - these are the seemingly simple words from the lips of a woman that can literally blow a man up. This seems to be something bestial, invisible connection, which can not be built with flowers, sweets and going to the cinema. If a woman smells unpleasant for a man, then this cannot be solved with perfume. That is why it is important to look not just for a partner, but for a completely comparable person, whom even the usual aroma of the body will plunge into ecstasy. This is based on the level of chemical bonds, biology, and therefore it is extremely important in a relationship. The smell of a beloved man is what the girl wakes up with, lives and goes to bed, so it should be perfect.
Why is the influence of aroma so great?
For what reason does the smell of a man or woman mean so much to a person? Why are any changes in the choice of perfume almost always felt right away? Anthropologist Annique Le Gerer believes that the answer to this question is the specificity of urban life. Where does the toilet of any person begin? Shower, talcum powder, deodorant, cologne, if necessary - powder. All this was created for the sole purpose of creating the perfect external image. However, the resulting picture is a literally empty place for the sense of smell of a person. The nose has lost its key role in life, and therefore it is practically not needed by modern man.
What does this mean in practice
Given the fact that the smell of sweat can shock an ordinary resident of a metropolis, it hardly makes sense to talk about the rejection of at least the most "heavy" perfumes. Anthropologists believe that the specifics of the definition of "one's own" man, which was accessible thanks to animal instincts, are dozing off. You can wake her up, but hardly every second will. A completely different question is personal relations, a house where a person remains himself. A place where he can get rid of the mask. If a man’s body odor is unpleasant to a woman, will he always use perfume? Every day several times? It may well be worth a change of partner. Indeed, even the usual smell of skin in one person causes rejection, but makes the other gently touch his lips to his neck.
The beast that is napping
The effect of pheromones on sexuality cannot be underestimated. The smell of a man or woman during sex, the aroma of intimate secretions or sweat can lead a person if he can feel it. Sexologists advocate a pure sexual intercourse: without perfumes, body balms, condoms with strawberry flavor and sometimes such smelly scented candles. Hardly in a bedroom filled with aromas of sandalwood so that the eyes are watery, you can tune into an intimate atmosphere and indulge in real, wild and animal sex. Even the most tidy girls admit that in some cases a huge, sweaty male excites them, while in life they will prefer an intellectual dressed with a needle.
Why it is important to be natural
“Relations built on a foundation of lies hardly stand before gusts of wind” is a real cliche, but not without a ration. Carefully building his image, choosing a fragrance, dressing in the latest fashion, a person always runs the risk of falling into the mud in front of a lady if she gets up the next morning without all this toilet. He was looking for a partner for the created illusion of man, but not for himself. No, this does not mean that you just need to throw out the deodorant, especially if in summer the temperature reaches 40 degrees. However, it is simply necessary to be natural as often as possible. To be near. And then the smell of a man for a woman will become a synonym for calm, stability, protection. It is a real fragrance, and not the perfume that cost a fortune.
What should be the cologne?
It’s extremely difficult to choose your own fragrance so that it complements the real nature, but does not overlap it. It is important to determine the aroma, intensity, duration, refuse a cheap deodorant with an amazing chemical aroma. All this is necessary so that the perfume supports the real face of a man, but does not hide it. So, for example, a young man with a tart tobacco aroma and notes of dark wood will seem overly pompous and too adult.
But a respectable businessman, who bought for himself a cheap perfume with a pungent aroma of citrus, will only cause bewilderment among colleagues and a desire to throw a smelly bottle as far as possible. It is important to do experiments together. To give the wife the opportunity to choose the smell that she likes more. In the end, a woman will get used to it. Then the intimate smell of a man, dear and familiar, will work for the partner, and not against him.
Change doesn't always have a positive effect
It is worth introducing an ordinary man, courageous, strong, strong and reliable. For years he has been buying a specific brand of cologne; it is simple and at the same time quite exquisite, for example, tart coffee combined with a sweet floral accent. Such a perfume is a rather old, but still fashionable classic suit, the smell of a man is familiar and loved by his companion.
After that, he is advised to try a new product, a stunningly popular and expensive cologne, which blows a gentle marine accent, coupled with lily of the valley. And that same man awkwardly kneads in sneakers and shorts, which are also small for him. Something like this looks like a typical example of a search for a new perfume. The smell of an excited man is also a kind of “cologne”, and it is not worth spoiling it with synthetic lubricant or chemistry.
Is it that important?
It is possible that women have a much better understanding of this issue, as they live in a richer world of odors. Perhaps any girl was faced with the fact that for some reason he did not like the handsome, wealthy man who should draw her attention to himself. He looks after her beautifully, drives her in a car, maybe even involved her in an intimate relationship, only sex turns faded, tense, mechanical. This is the key feature of the “wrong” partner. To get rid of this, to endure, to try to drown out the fragrance with perfumes - all this is pointless, because sooner or later the problem will come out anyway, and then you will have to part with an obscure pretext, bashfully lowering your eyes.
