Adequate self-esteem requires knowing yourself well enough. To know not only bad things about yourself, but also good ones. What are the virtues? These are qualities that put you on a high level and make you pleasant or necessary to others. But how to form the correct picture of yourself? Consider as many factors as possible.
Grading Systems
In the world of personal characteristics, there can be no absolute norms that would regulate that a given person, for example, is friendly. It is up to you to decide what degree of politeness will be considered necessary in order to acquire the mentioned characteristic. On the whole and in general, it’s better not to discard quality according to the principle “I can - I do not know how”, and put points from one to ten for each property. Or better as a percentage, it already depends on how many nuances you distinguish in one or another quality. What properties attract people in the first place? Advantages are communicative, that is, communication skills. And the skill of working according to the “won - won” scheme.
Communicate perfectly
What are communicative virtues? This is primarily the ability to read the emotional state of other people and try to predict a change in this state as a result of certain influences. And if recognition can be learned on special sites, then forecasting is a matter of practice. The more you communicate, the better it will turn out to be pleasant in communication.
Learn mind
The second number in the list of necessary qualities are intellectual characteristics. What is it? Advantages, including the baggage of knowledge (erudition) and the ability to apply this information in new situations (in fact, intelligence).
How to improve these indicators? The good old math will help you. If you haven’t counted in your mind for a long time, set an alarm on your smartphone that requires solving problems to turn off. Intellectual breakthrough guaranteed in two weeks! The luggage of knowledge is replenished exclusively by reading and watching cognitive programs. The formation of this characteristic is best helped by higher education. However, it does not help everyone. Self-discipline is still needed, but this is another area.
Power characteristics
What are the virtues of the volitional part of the personality? This is the ability to become the perfect performer of your own decisions. It is also the ability to disconnect from stunningly interesting tasks in favor of not very attractive activities. This should also include the ability to work smoothly and stably regardless of the quantity and quality of personal dramas. You become something like a robot - and gain a lot of advantages over the "average person".
There is also another term for self-worth. Do not confuse this concept with previously described characteristics of the individual. What are the virtues? These are properties that exist objectively, regardless of the desire of the observing person. But dignity is a concept that exists only within the framework of society. Outside of society, this phenomenon does not happen; it is formed on the basis of social interactions. People around establish the right to dignity and respect or do not respect the bearer of certain qualities. In developed countries, this right is included in the legal system and is protected by society as fundamental.
