Lucky accidents can solve everything at the blink of an eye, turn fate around 180 degrees and completely change lives. We cannot predict them, predict or deny their existence. But we can easily create opportunities and favorable conditions for happy coincidences. After all, an insignificant chance to get acquainted with a rock idol is much higher if you visit his favorite places and know his interests. And sitting at home and sighing on his page on Instagram is not at all conducive to getting to know each other.
If the strategy of waiting and inaction is not your hobby, then the tips below will help you understand what actions will result in the search for the second half.
Psychics, grandmas and tests on the Internet
We remember it immediately, and no longer hope for them or their alternatives. No witches give a 100% guarantee. There are a lot of thematic tests: “What kind of man do I need”, “How to find your soul mate”, etc. But to find really worthwhile among them is very, very difficult. Most of these tests are purely entertaining.
Questions to ponder:
- "Is there any chance of meeting a man of my dreams in the rhythm of life that I live in?"
- "Am I ready to trust a stranger or program to make one of the most important decisions in my life?"
- "If I have studied enough conspiracies, wear 20 amulets, pass 45 tests and know all the astrological aspects of a narrowed, then will he be delighted when I tell him about it?"
Key thought: "I myself want to make decisions and influence what is happening in my life."
Define your goals
I need a man. Which one? How to determine this and not make a mistake? To do this, you need to clearly understand your own goals and desires. After all, a man alone is not a dream for life. What to do with him when he is found? Looking for a new dream?
Questions to ponder:
- "What ignites me from the inside? What is my goal in life?"
- "What do I want? Relocate to another country? Oven cakes and cookies for eight sons in the kitchen of a cozy house? Buy a spacious apartment with a good view from the window? Become a great scientist? Create a family business?".
Our goals become closer only when we get the support of the second half. When next to us is a like-minded, reliable shoulder and understanding friend.
Key thought: "The one I seek, shares and understands my dreams. We want the same thing and strive for it together." Here it is important to understand what this goal is.
Which man do I need, and where to meet him?
External preferences and tastes that change over time are generally not decisive factors in the end.
Decisive will be the inner content of men and the quality of character. In other words, it is the soul that falls in love with us. How to find the same soul mate?
It is much easier to understand when it is known what the man has goals, what he aspires to. You need to create a kind of portrait, find the key features of this person and understand where you can meet him.
Questions to ponder:
- "What qualities are needed for a man who is able to realize our common dream with me?"
- "Where is it interesting to be a person who has such a character and is interested in what we both strive for?"
- "How does he spend his free time, and where does he work? Where does it happen?"
Everything is very simple. If a girl wants to go to permanent residence in Spain, then it is very important for her to learn the language. And instead of individual training, you need to choose a group course. Not the fact that it is there that she will meet her love, but it is in this way that the girl provides a chance of a happy accident. That is, it specifically creates the possibility of such a scenario.
Key thought: "It is necessary to give the man the opportunity to find me himself. If you close yourself at home, isolate yourself from communication with the outside world, only a psychiatrist can fall in love with me, to whom I will be in 10 years. And that is not a fact."
Compliance with your own needs
Here you need to understand that it’s not enough just to understand who the girl is looking for. She must fit her half. A woman does not just sit and wait for her dreams to come true by themselves, without any effort on her part. She is acting.
Questions to ponder:
- “If I meet someone I’ve been looking for so long now, what can I offer him?”
- "What kind of relationship does a man need?"
- "Why should he be interested in me? How can I conquer him?"
- "How will he understand that I am his other half?"
As soon as the girl finds for herself the answer to the question "what kind of man do I need, " she must understand how to become the second half for him. It is in this direction that one needs to move, develop and become better.
It will immediately become clear what needs to be worked on, what qualities of character are worth adjusting, and which ones to get rid of.
Key thought: “I have many good and worthy qualities. I work on what prevents me from achieving my dreams. I become better and more interesting when I develop.”
Working on the look
"Do I want to like my beloved?" - "Naturally." "Will I make an effort for this?" - "Sure".
Men love eyes, and not only men. A lot of operations are performed by our brain, evaluating the image of each person with whom we communicate.
Questions to ponder:
- "Does my appearance reflect my personality traits? What are these traits?"
- "Is there something in my image that can push me away from exactly who I am looking for?"
Key thought: "It is not necessary to comply with all fashion trends and trends in order to please a person externally."
