Japanese guys are very different from Russian, because the difference in mentality is very obvious. But, despite this, the girls still like the men of the Land of the Rising Sun, although international couples rarely form with them. And most often the differences in values and concepts of how to behave are to blame for everything.
Society influence
Historically, a patriarchal social system is more common in Japan, so foreign women are often not comfortable here. The interests of men are always an order of magnitude higher: in any institutions their opinion and needs will be a priority.
Japanese guys for the most part are not prone to beautiful courtship. Do not expect huge bouquets or fanciful dates. In the Land of the Rising Sun, it’s not even customary to open doors for a woman, not to mention helping with weight transfer or other things familiar to Russia.
Attitude towards women
Now among the men of the Land of the Rising Sun, there are more and more of those who adapt to European ways to find a life partner, but there are also those who support an established model of behavior. At the same time, in fact, Japanese guys consider foreign girls to be very beautiful, but rarely talk about it, because this is not customary in the society of which they are a part.
In the Land of the Rising Sun, a man is a breadwinner and a support for the family; he is always valuable, while an aged woman loses her "presentation". Because of this, the goal of most ordinary Japanese women is to get married as soon as possible, so the couples here are stacked from the school bench. Such a way is still preserved in the country, despite the development of technology and the growing need for personal improvement.
For this reason, even the most outwardly cute Japanese guys will hardly seem attractive to European girls who are used to completely different standards of behavior. With the same load at work and at home, a man will always believe that he is getting tired more, and his activities are many times more important than what his spouse does. However, it all depends on the purpose of dating, because many foreigners are interested in the Japanese only with the aim of moving to another country.
The positive aspects of Japanese men
As in any other country, people, of course, are different, so what is written here also does not apply to everyone. Girls who had experience of both friendly and romantic communication with the Japanese claim that they have a lot of positive qualities.
For example, they are very hardworking and grateful, never throw words in the wind and say nothing superfluous. The Japanese guys express their affection through actions, not forgetting the memorable dates and fulfilling the promises ever made.
If a girl has a very warm relationship with a guy or he likes him very much, he will simply be retrained and tuned in the right way. However, one should be careful here, because the zeal of the Japanese knows no bounds, and some small surprises or gifts that are customary to give from time to time in Europe can fall like a cornucopia, and often out of place.
But in any case, if a guy and a foreign girl are quite young, he will be interested in communicating with her, learning new things about foreign culture and traditions, and there will be no more reason for showing off to friends.
Difficulty in understanding
However, it was not without the reverse side of the coin: the secrecy of the Japanese sometimes interferes with the normal development of relations. From any person his discontent can sometimes escape, but the man of the Land of the Rising Sun keeps himself to the last. Therefore, he splashes out emotions only at the moment of the apogee of his disappointment, because of which the problem that has arisen is unlikely to be resolved, and quarrels often result in serious assault.
This is the reason for trying to liberate him as much as possible while communicating with the Japanese and accustom him to the idea that discussing discontent is normal and even useful.
About appearance
Beautiful Japanese guys always, one way or another, find their way in life. Most often they are served in the fashion industry, combining filming with other creative specialties. Most of them are known only within their own country, especially since only those whose appearance to some extent meets European standards can achieve world success.
Japanese male models most often achieve significant results in this field, only if they take this profession as the main one. Among them are Daiske Ueda, Theta Wada and Hiroshi Tamaki. The last youth is especially loved by the townsfolk, since there is no pathos in him, and the poses he demonstrates are often quite relaxed and careless.
In the fashion industry, there are also "half-breeds", but their appearance is weakly reminiscent of Japanese origin.
Japanese guy names
Lovers of the Land of the Rising Sun can often be caught by an excessive interest in the names that are common among residents. It is worth saying that due to population density there are much more of them than even in Russian latitudes. Rarely, even in different anime series you can meet characters with the same names - so great is their diversity.
Often they consist of only two hieroglyphs, in which case one of them represents the masculine principle and helps in the correct reading: “tree” - ki, “husband” - oh, “helper” - suke, etc. For example, Hiroto or Yamato. Unlike women’s, Japanese boy names bear the meanings of certain character traits, symbolize the order or date of birth.
The most common today are Riku, Seta, Sora and Haruto (both spellings). There are also diminutive forms formed in different ways: by reducing to one syllable, adding a suffix to a full name or partial addition to a surname (for example, Kimura Takuya - Kimutaku), but this technique is most often used for foreigners. Sometimes the abbreviated name may sound different than the full one, depending on how the first character is read separately. At the same time, the suffix “chan” is mistakenly considered feminine, while it is also used when a girl addresses a guy, if he is a very close friend.
