All of us, men and women, are inhabitants of the Earth. But, having read the well-known book “Men from Mars, Women from Venus”, which was written by John Gray, we understand how different we are.
In this regard, a woman often has a question about how to understand a man, if he says one thing, does the other, and thinks the third. In this situation, the Indian doctrine "On the relationship between a man and a woman" says: do not believe what the man says, but believe what he does. It is worth taking a closer look at how his behavior has changed in order to understand what is on his mind. If a man “shines” like a new penny, then his personal life has changed, and he wants to please someone, and he tells you that he has a meeting or meeting with partners. How to understand a man if he says: "I love you, " but at the same time calls from case to case? He does not love you - that is what it can mean!
And sometimes, in a conversation with a friend, a woman complains: “How to understand a man’s attitude if he is silent all the time?” She just has a silent husband who does everything for the family. It is clear that she is not indifferent to him. What is there to talk about? The scissors are designed so that if she is not told all the time about love, she begins to doubt her. After all, women perceive everything differently.
How to understand what a man wants?
Let's try to figure this out. You can highlight the basic needs of men:
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Power and superiority. It is inherent in nature. He is a hunter and a getter. A wise woman should intuitively feel this and, being near, support and respect him. If a woman does not respect a man, she will not be able to love him.
- A man needs to be taken care of. He will always appreciate the efforts of a woman who will create comfort in the house, will be a good housewife, a caring wife and mother.
- A man wants to be understood and shared by his interests. This does not mean that a woman should watch football with him, go fishing or disappear for hours in the garage near the car. No, she just should not be jealous of him for a hobby, but accept him as he is, unobtrusively interested in his hobbies.
- A man wants to remain free, to have his own personal space and time, even after being married. A woman who encroaches on his freedom and makes an object out of him, adapting to herself, has a low self-esteem. She is afraid of losing a man, and losing. The man begins to look "to the side."
- A man is looking for a woman with whom he will be cozy and comfortable. Which one? This is stated in the first four paragraphs. And if a woman has learned the simple art of how to understand a man, she will be the ideal that he is looking for. She will be able to give him what he wants - to be a man!
We are different
Men and women should understand that only union will be psychologically healthy under conditions of preserving the relative independence and individuality of each. No one should deny himself or subjugate another to himself, but everyone should develop, opening up new ways to improve relations. Only in this case, the woman will not have a question about how to understand a man, and for a man - how to understand a woman. The most important thing is not to forget that only love allows them to complement each other.
