Turkey is a tourist country: excellent service, beautiful picturesque landscapes, affordable cost of tours, warm sea, entertainment for every taste. The beaches attract tourists from all over the world. Of course, resort novels also happen.
But entertainment is one thing, and marriage and a serious relationship are quite another. And what kind of Turkish men are they? What kind of husbands and fathers are they? How do they feel about Slavic girls? Is it worth it to marry a Turk? All this and much more will be discussed in our article.
Features of the mentality and character of men
The boy is raised by his mother, there is even a popular saying: "The boy is closer to mom, the girl is closer to dad." It is for this reason that fathers are very happy when a daughter is born. Religion plays an important role in raising children, despite the secularism of the country. Most often, Turkish boys and girls do not have sexual relations before marriage. So the Koran requires, this rule is strictly observed in the east of the country and less strictly in the west. Girls and boys are trying to get married early. Although the situation has changed a lot lately. Men began to gain sexual experience before marriage, for this reason their marriage age has grown significantly. For example, in large cities there are a lot of bachelors whose age is over 30 years.
Family Creation Traditions
Currently, the country has developed an old and new tradition of creating a family. The essence of the first is that parents, without the knowledge of the bride and groom, create couples. This tradition has been preserved in rural provinces and remote corners of the country. In addition, the groom's parents can arrange such a wedding to prevent marriage with a foreigner.
Another old way of marriage, which is already resorted to by older Turks: they buy a wife in a poor province.
The new tradition is freedom of choice, but traditional education plays an important role here too. The girls are looking for a richer bridegroom, and the Turkish guys marry moral girls. Therefore, many of them still have feelings not in the first place.
Attitude to a woman
For a Turkish man, the aspect of the spotlessness of female honor is important; for him, a wife is a woman who will be with him all his life. There are very few divorces in the country. It is the aspects of possession and possession that determine his attitude towards a woman. High morality, complete trust - these are the fundamental features for him that a wife should have. A man perceives a woman as property, so the idea that before him someone else possessed it is unbearable.
It should be noted that the Turkish women also perceive husbands as property - this is a fact of the legal possession of what brings her the status of a wife. That is, it is social security, calm, stability, material security.
The main character traits of men in Turkey
As a rule, many Turkish men have the following character traits:
- Courtesy.
- Honesty.
- Responsiveness, willingness to help.
- National pride.
- Conservativeness.
- Confidence.
- Politeness.
- Hospitality.
- Authoritarianism.
- Slowness.
- Punctuality.
- Self-criticism.
Feelings and emotions
Turkish guys are very temperamental, romantic, kind, gentle and unsophisticated by nature. High potency, temperament and romance fit perfectly into traditional relationships. The Turks have found a way to satisfy their romantic aspirations - lovers and adultery. Although a few decades ago, this was considered unacceptable. Currently, Turkish society is turning a blind eye to the presence of mistresses. Turkish women also try not to pay attention to this and not bring the matter to a divorce. Often the husband simply leaves the family and lives a single life, not forgetting to fully provide for his children and wife, while the matter does not lead to divorce.
Marry a Turk
With the beginning of the development of tourism in Turkey, the era of interethnic relations began. Online dating is also popular today.
Many girls coming to Turkish resorts are completely unprepared for communication and relations with people of a different culture and mentality. They perceive the Turkish guys as exotic, equal sons of the Ottoman sultans, hot machos. This is their main mistake. The ladies lose their heads and allow themselves liberties, which could not even be discussed at home. In addition, most Turkish guys are beautiful and well-groomed, they can win the heart of even a very serious young lady.
But it is worth noting that most men value foreign women in the strict framework of their traditions and imposed stamps.
It should be noted that the resort area of the country is replete with local residents, who are the hotel staff, their earnings are very low. These are either students, or villagers, or Kurds. This is the whole list of cavaliers of the resort area. In addition, 99% of Turks, having achieved intimacy, are unlikely to exchange national family traditions for marriage with a foreigner. The main reasons for this are the hostility of society, cultural differences, religious background.
Also, Turkish media often promote a negative image of the Slav as a girl of easy virtue. It should be noted that in Turkey the vast majority of prostitutes are Slavs. In addition, the opinion of society is fueled by the behavior of our compatriots in the resort. This is the general situation in the country. Of course, there are marriages of Turkish guys with foreigners, but they developed on interpersonal relations. That is, this is the result of a long personal relationship that developed during work and study.
As for legal marriage, the Turkish man is a getter and protector. However, part of his income will go to help relatives. Turks are very fond of children, especially daughters. Men are very sensitive to family traditions, never abandon a child, this is considered a low and shameful act.
How to win a man’s heart
The country has a strong view that all Slavic women are easily accessible. But not all Turks in Turkey treat our girls this way. For many of them, marriage with a Russian woman is the best option for creating a family. But in order to please a man, you should show character traits that are valued and respected in this country. This is modesty, kindness, responsiveness, decency, trust in your man.
Oriental grooms consider frivolous and windy girls only as lovers and girlfriends, but not legal spouses.
Jealousy
Separately, it is worth dwelling on such a national character trait of Turkish men as jealousy. In their cultural tradition, the dominance of a man over a woman and the full possession of her are laid. That is why jealousy and the desire to know what his beloved does is caused by possessive feelings, and not by the fear of competition and suspicions of treason.
If you do not pay attention to his desire to know where you are and what you are doing, and not to flirt with men, then the relationship will be calm and balanced.
Turkish family
The best groom is an accomplished man who lives in a separate apartment and is able to independently provide for his family, since it is very problematic for a Russian girl to find a common language with her relatives. In addition, unmarried children or younger brothers with wives and children, as a rule, live in the father’s house.
All Turkish women are very restrained in the presence of men, but in private they arrange real showdowns and can easily survive from a house a foreigner who did not like them.
Do not mess with a married man. He, as a rule, promises a beautiful life, marriage, but in fact it implies content, not a serious relationship. They in every possible way avoid stains. According to the laws, he must support both children and his wife, since the woman does not work.
Turkish men are great fathers, especially for daughters. Here they simply adore their daughters and are very close to them. In the event of a divorce, the children remain with the mother, but if the husband can prove that the woman was behaving inappropriately, the court will transfer the children to him.
The most famous Turks: Engin Akurek
This is a popular modern Turkish actor, familiar to our viewers from the series “Dirty Money, False Love”. He is recognized as the most attractive actor in Turkey. Born in the family of a government official and a housewife. He graduated from high school, entered the State University, where he studied at two faculties: linguistics and history. Here he began to attend a drama studio.
After graduation, he participated in the talk show "Stars of Turkey", where he won in the category "Acting". He was noticed by filmmakers and was invited to appear in a television series.
Engin Akurek's debut film - “The Foreign Groom”. The tragedy “Fate” immediately followed, which brought the actor the most prestigious award “Perspective Actor of the Year”, then the action movie “Black Snake”, the love melodrama “If I Become a Cloud” and the drama “Farewell, Rumelia”.
Since 2014, the films of Engin Akurek: "The Little Problem of Eilül", "Dirty Money, False Love", "Until Death."
The film “Without Guilty Guilty”, which was shown in more than 30 countries, brought great popularity to the actor. He became famous both in the country and abroad.
The actor leads a secluded lifestyle. He does not like to talk about the personal, which entails a lot of speculation and gossip. He is credited with multiple romantic relationships with the leading actors of the films in which he starred.
Top most beautiful musicians
Recently, Turkey has become the most popular and visited resort, and CDs with Turkish music - a popular gift brought from this country. This music is fiery, the words are catchy. In our country, singers have become popular and loved.
Top most beautiful young Turkish singers:
15. Yusuf Guney, a pop singer, currently lives in London.
14. Emre Altug - pop singer, actor. He is one of the most popular male singers in Turkey.
13. Murat Dalkilich became famous in 2008, when his hit “City” sounded on the radio. The song became very popular, he shot a clip on it.
12. Emir - in 2009 his song Eline Dustum became “Song of the Year”, and his album entered the top 5 Turkish ratings.
11. Korai Kandemir - musician and songwriter. Currently living in Seattle, plans to release a single soon. He is known for his charity and acting.
10. Emra Ipek, actor and pop singer. He became famous in 1986 with the album "Agam Agam".
9. Keremjem - actor and pop singer.
8. Ismail EK - pop singer, after graduation he devoted himself completely to his musical career.
7. Mahsun Kirmyzygul - Turkish singer with Kurdish roots. He became famous in 1994. In total, he released 12 albums, starred in 4 films and 6 series.
6. Berdan Mardini - became famous thanks to his album Türküler in 2004.
5. Ogan Aydin - musician and composer. He became famous in 2005 thanks to the album Kader Ugruna. Works in the electronic genre.
4. Mustafa Sandal, in the country he is called Musti. He is the most popular Turkish performer in Europe.
3. Murat Boz, an equally popular Turkish singer, performs in the R&B genre.
2. Kerim Tekin became famous thanks to the hit of Cici Baba in 1995. But in 1998, he died in a car accident, right after the festival, at which he sang a song that he himself would rather die than his love. The song became fatal.
1. Tarkan - released several platinum albums. He became very popular in Europe, not singing a single song in English.
Top most beautiful actors
Charisma, charm and talent of Turkish men especially touch the Russian audience. Turkish cinema has long won its niche. We all remember such films as “Korolek is a songbird”, “My love, my sorrow”, “My poplar in a red scarf”. The most popular series currently are "The Magnificent Century", "Leaf Fall", "Forbidden Love". The top most beautiful young Turkish actors are listed below:
10. Mehmet Akif Alakurt - model and actor. He became popular after the role of Boran Aga in the series "Strength and Boran".
9. Bugra Gyulsoy - director, actor, photographer. He starred in the films “I saw the sun”, “Good days are coming”, “Shadows and faces”.
8. Kenan Kalav was born into a Turkish-German family. He starred in the films “Passion”, “Korolek is a songbird”, “Slave of money”, “For one night in my life”.
7. Tolgakhan Sayyshman - model, actor, TV presenter. He starred in the films “Love Comes Suddenly, ” “Tulip Time, ” “Goal of My Life, ” “Ask the Sky.”
6. Tuna Onur - "Arabian Nights", "Life Continues."
5. Murat Yildirim is known for the films “We Must Stay Together”, “Hurricane”, “Asi”, “Pain of Autumn”, “Love and Punishment”, “Big Lie”.
4. Kyvanch Tatlutug - model and actor, starred in the films “Kuzei Guney”, “Gyumyush”, “Forbidden Love”, “Silver”, “Ezel”.
3. Burak Ozchitiv: “Husband under duress”, “Magnificent age”, “Impossible love”, “Family house”.
2. Kadyr Inanyr: “The Last Seven Steps”, “Shame”, “Return”, “Doctor”, “Sister-in-law”, “Kitty”.
1. Engin Akurek.
