We all choose our style of communication and behavior. Everyone has his own reasons for this, as well as his goals. But there is something that unites us all. What everyone wants is respect. This is one of the most significant factors for each of us. We respect some people and expect that we will be treated with respect.
And how often do our expectations coincide with reality? Most likely, not as we would like. Respect is what you need to achieve.
First and foremost, your self-respect. Think for yourself. Would you respect a person who does not love himself? Of course not. For what? Respect for the good, positive, distinctive in a person, and for people who do not value themselves, such qualities are very difficult to notice.
Each bond we have is something good, something that makes us different from the rest. If you come home from work every day and feel overwhelmed and unsatisfied with life, you should think about the need for change. Do not immediately change anything dramatically. Just stop and think what pleases you, what pleases you, and what makes you feel alive. Make a habit of pleasing yourself and giving yourself a break. Show respect to yourself. This will serve as a good help in becoming you as a self-sufficient person. Important and solid, certainly suitable for time and place appearance.
The second rule is considered the need to respect others. It is a necessity. Respect everyone you deal with in order to gain respect. It is very important to always remember. Everyone is worthy of respect. Each person has something for which he can be respected. If you cannot find such a quality in any of the people you met, it is worth considering that we all deserve respect simply because we are People. All of us were born and raised by our mothers not to be treated with disrespect. Yes, and I do not want to think that we are dealing with unworthy people. So, the people around us should be worthy of respect.
Be confident. Do not be afraid to defend your point of view, take the initiative and, if necessary, engage in self-promotion. We are often too afraid of condemnation or ridicule. No need to be afraid of what may not be. You must believe in yourself and make sure that you are listened to and taken into account your opinion. Here I want to add one more point. It is sometimes very difficult for each of us to refuse anyone. We are often asked for help, harmful or simply not useful for work, image or personal time. It is necessary to clearly and firmly abandon the habit of giving in to everyone. Learn to answer NO. "Rags" are not respected.
If you know exactly what you want from life and have a clear plan on how to achieve this, you will instantly move to a privileged circle of focused people. Knowing this, you can, without fear, take the initiative and offer your help in interesting projects for you. You, of course, will meet all of the above points. People with no purpose will admire you. And that means you finally got respect. This is important for everyone.
