Today, a lot of different materials have been written about misogynists. However, most of them are too biased towards this category of men, revealing only half the truth. The fact is that it is worthless to blame people for their bad temper, not figuring out why they became such. Indeed, sometimes a tragic story hidden in the deep past lies behind a nasty character.
Therefore, let us put aside all prejudices and talk about who the male sexists really are. What lies behind their hatred? And why do not all misoginists deserve judgment from the ladies?
Who is a woman hater?
It’s funny, but not many people know what the women’s haters are actually called. So, in psychology for this category of men there is a special term - misogynist. However, since this word is hard of hearing, many still use an older and more familiar concept. As for the interpretation, the woman-hater is a man who pathologically hates all women. Moreover, in most cases, he does not hide his disgust, but, on the contrary, does everything possible to demonstrate it demonstratively. After all, the only way he is able to calm that fire of hatred that burns in his heart.
Hater: Symptoms
Naturally, you should not classify all the bad men in this category. After all, there are a number of special criteria that distinguish misogynists from the rest of the guys. So, let's look at the most striking symptoms of this psychological anomaly:
- Women-haters are disgusted with all the young ladies in general, and not with separately selected representatives of the weaker sex.
- All misoginists deify the image of a man: in their eyes he is better in both physical and spiritual terms.
- This category of guys never acknowledges the success of a woman. Even if the girl defeated them in a fair fight, the misogynists will nevertheless persistently prove the opposite or refer to shameful manipulations by their rival.
- All misoginist actions are aimed at humiliating a woman. And to achieve this goal, such men are not afraid to use even the most extreme means and tactics.
- In love relationships, the vast majority of misogynists act as cruel tyrants. They do not perceive their partner as equal to themselves, and therefore can safely change him. However, they do not accept this appeal to themselves and constantly remind about it.
Types of Woman Haters
It should be noted that there are many different criteria by which women haters are divided into classes. For example, one famous publication published an article stating that all misoginists share according to their original source of anger. At first, this may seem like the right decision, but you should think about it and you begin to notice that there are a number of shortcomings in this theory.
Therefore, it will be more rational to divide all misogynists into two large categories: hidden and active. Let's look at them individually:
- An active woman hater is a man who, with all his behavior, shows disgust or hatred of women. He does not suppress his feelings and is not embarrassed by them. Moreover, this type of guy strives with all his might to spread his ideas among others, spreading false ideals.
- The hidden woman-hater, on the contrary, tries to hide her true feelings deep inside. Although he hates women, he still creeps in front of them, because of his fear, he is incapable of open struggle. But at the same time, this type of man is very dangerous. After all, you never know when he will break and hit in the back.
Why do men become misogynists?
Perhaps it will be more true to ask about when men become misogynists. Indeed, often it is age that plays a key role. Therefore, let's look at the most common examples of how ordinary guys turn into aggressive misogynists:
- Children's images. It's no secret that the nature and habits of a person originate at an early age. The same rule applies to misogynists. Most misoginists became so due to the fact that in childhood they had to see the wrong patterns of behavior. For example, a mother who beats and humiliates her child becomes the embodiment of his despair and anger. Over the years, this image applies to all women, because of which the man begins to completely hate them.
- Youthful indignation. Teenagers are very emotional, which increases the chance of psychological trauma at this age. Therefore, often a young woman-hater is a guy who is disappointed in his love. For example, if the romantic zeal of a young man was brutally trampled by a chosen one, then it is likely that after that he will hate all the girls. After all, they will all frantically remind him of the one that gave him the first mental pain.
- Mature disappointment. Oddly enough, but the older the person, the lower the chance that he will become a woman hater. This is due to the fact that at this age his inner world is already formed. And only a strong emotional shock can destroy it. For example, the reason for this may be betrayal, betrayal or a big lie on the part of the life partner.
What danger do misoginists have?
First of all, a woman hater is a very bad guy or husband. Because of his beliefs, he can turn the life of his chosen one into a living hell. At the same time, he will not repent, since a similar order of things is quite ordinary for him. In addition, misogynists can complicate life even for those ladies who rarely intersect with them. For example, having gained a leading position, such men can use their power to put sticks in the wheels of their colleagues of the opposite sex.
