It all started when a young woman, Holly Simon, posted an innocent post on her Facebook page. And it would seem who cares - well, published and published … But the content of the post so outraged people that a heated discussion began. Today, this publication has already been seen by more than 57 thousand people, and more than 15 thousand could not refrain from commenting.
The essence of the post
The essence of the post posted on the Internet is that a woman talks about how much she loves to do housework, cleaning up her careless spouse. In the end, the girl urges all wives to do the same.
“Every day I take the towel that he hangs on our ledge and throw it on the hook in the bathroom, put the hair gel back in the drawer, which is 7 centimeters from where he put it, literally close each cabinet / drawer, and regularly pick up socks and shoes scattered around the house.
As a young wife (especially given the presence of a small child), this often caused me irritation. “Isn't it enough for me to daily clean up the baby ?!” - Not so long ago, I really felt bitterness about this.
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But then I realized that the meaning of all this is much deeper. These little things represent his presence in our house. What if they weren't there every day? What else will be lacking in our lives? His laughter, his comfort, his words? How many women and children live in such hopeless longing?
A trace of his daily routine means that I have a husband who continues to come home. I do not lead a lonely life. I do not raise my child alone.
And this is the real reason for gratitude, not annoyance - if you are in the same position, take a breath, this is a common occurrence for us. And you are most likely just tired. But remember: this is not “your burden”, it is your gift of fate. Do not be annoyed, do not scream and do not be offended by your husband. Just silently put his socks in the basket, lotion - in the box, wipe the mirror, slide the cabinet and hang the towel in place. Just because you have it, and you should appreciate it, because other women haven’t had such happiness. ”
People reaction
Holly's message did not meet the approval she hoped for. Only a small part of people supported her, but most expressed their belief that she was desperate and needed help herself.
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“The man is careless, and you have to clean up after him, like a little child?” And should it be romantic? ”
“It's completely abnormal to clean up after an adult man! It is normal to clean only for young children and elderly people who themselves cannot do this purely physically. Adults should be able to clean up after themselves. Are you going to hang towels and collect socks after 50 years? Sorry, but why do you need an “eternal child?”
“Better to find someone who is able to do both of them: to be near you and maintain order. Do you live for two? ”
“Many men do not value hardworking wives … Instead, they simply take advantage of these relationships. Too many selfish men … They need to grow up, and apparently you too. ”
“Of course, I hope that he will begin to pick up his things. Otherwise, this is some kind of perversion … ”.
“I have no words for this post. It sounds as if her husband was angry with her, and she is trying to atone for her … Girl, you seem to be out of your mind.
Men also could not resist
Surprisingly, there are quite a few men among commentators. And, strangest of all, most of them strongly oppose such behavior.
“Do you even understand what you are writing about? You must appreciate that he comes home … You do not respect yourself at all? And he should not appreciate that you come home? Sorry, but you probably consider yourself a dog who is glad that the owner did not abandon her. A man and a woman who really love each other will always appreciate each other and try to make their partner’s life easier. And you have a one-goal game. I'm just sorry for you. ”
"Yes, the man was well attached! He’s like some kind of God. Honestly, the girl, apparently, doesn’t give a damn about you. I will never allow myself to throw my socks around - it’s easy for me to bring them to the basket. About hanging a towel I’m not even talking about the hook and pushing the drawer. I would be ashamed if my wife would “wipe” me like a small child. I feel sorry for you."
