“About times, about morals!” - Such a phrase can often be heard from older people who discuss the life, appearance and habits of young people in general and modern girls in particular. And although this winged expression came to us from Ancient Rome, its relevance did not diminish. Surely in the future, just like now, like thirty and fifty years ago, grandmothers, sitting on benches at the porches, will consider the generation of young girls more licentious and less developed. Is this really so, and what kind of modern girls are they?
Generation difficulties
Now, on the verge of the twenties of the 21st century, girls born in the late 1990s, after the collapse of the USSR, are entering a young, beautiful time. The period of life of the country in which a generation is born is also of considerable importance. The reforms that have taken place in education, the lack of Soviet ideology and the destruction of former values largely determine the generation of modern girls and boys.
And the surrounding world does not stand still: television, glossy magazines, the world of social networks that arose in the early 2000s form certain personality traits, sometimes not the most noble and healthy, both physically and mentally. Many temptations, promoted by the media and the Internet, can play a cruel joke on the fate of the mentally fragile personality of a modern girl.
In order for a girl not to become a hostage (supposedly) of the ideal proportions of the body or the image of her idol, she must understand that she needs to perceive herself as she really is, find her own line of behavior, style and not seek to be like someone else. It will help a lot in this parental disinterested and sincere love, reading quality literature, a good education and occupation for the soul.
About modern girls
Recently, very often only negative responses can be heard about youth. Men and young people say that the essence of modern girls is the consumer attitude to others, they have become less economic, they think about how it is profitable to get married, they easily rearrange their appearance to the same standards. In short, according to many, some modern girls (photos are presented in the article) were “shredded” by their souls or were completely gone.
As there is no smoke without fire, such judgments are not groundless. Indeed, there are such representatives of the weaker sex, and there are many of them. But is there no soul in all modern girls? Of course, this is completely wrong. If you meet such a girl, then know that the wrong values are driven into her head, and over time she will understand that there is nothing better than sincere feelings and simple beauty. In the genetic code of each girl, the desire to become a mother and a guardian of the hearth is inherent in her. Perhaps the time has not yet come for such women to realize this.
Indeed, as life shows, all the implanted stereotypes of a beautiful picture of a glamorous life with time can only lead to loneliness and emotional devastation. Although this sounds trite - but not everything is measured in money. Values such as love, family, friendship and the warmth of sincere feelings will always be eternal. And the sooner this girl understands, the better for her. Ideally, these principles should be conveyed to the girl by her parents from early childhood.
Self development
To become interesting not only for others and guys, but also to fill her life with content, it is very important for a modern girl to engage in self-development.
From active classes for self-development, you can choose yoga, sports, swimming in the pool or modern dances for girls. Such types of self-development will not only improve the appearance of the young lady, bring muscles to tone, but will also raise her mood. The existing types of modern dances for girls are very diverse. It can be complex strip plastic, classical choreography, street dances, Latin American, etc. You just need to listen to yourself, understand what kind of music you like, and choose the direction of modern dance. Despite physical fitness, in a few months you will be surprised at your abilities.
Various hobbies related to needlework, visiting and classes in creative workshops will also bring satisfaction, develop creative abilities, and, if necessary, help in choosing a profession. In addition to cutting and sewing courses, these can be culinary master classes, makeup training courses, learning a foreign language, etc. The main thing is that these classes are fun.
It is very important to pay attention to spiritual self-development and personal growth. Visiting theatrical events, exhibitions and museums, as well as reading the works of literary classics will correctly shape the soul of a modern lady, instill a good taste and help determine life guidelines. However, here it will be necessary to make efforts to select really high-quality literature, since now there are a lot of cheap tabloid books that do not carry anything useful, but only kill time.
In search of your own style
Any modern girl strives to be fashionable. But fashion cannot be universal for everyone: this or that thing is definitely suitable for someone, it absolutely does not look at another girl. And this is good, because otherwise there would be no such diversity in our world. So, you need to look for your own fashionable style, direction in clothing, which would correspond not only to external data, but also to the girl’s lifestyle, her preferences.
At the beginning of the search for the modern girl’s own style, it is necessary to gain theoretical knowledge, look through magazines, find out fashion trends. But there is no need to blindly copy images. Take only a note of the combination of colors, style or detail of the image.
To choose the clothes that will suit you, it is necessary to take into account the peculiarities of the figure, your color type, that is, what colors are suitable for you - warm if your skin is golden, dark or peach; and cold - for girls with fair, transparent skin. By the way, Russian girls (due to the harsh climate), for the most part, have cold beauty.
Consider carefully your figure in the mirror, taking into account all its features. It is important to remember that almost any lack of a figure can be turned into a virtue, presented as a highlight in the appearance of a girl. Give preference to clothing in size, which will be comfortable and convenient, which means that you can feel more confident in it.
Smart shopping
In order to look stylish and not be like anyone else, it is not necessary to buy expensive branded things and shoes. Undoubtedly, clothing should be of decent quality and meet fashion trends. Fortunately, there are now a lot of shops with high-quality and inexpensive clothes for every taste and size.
For clothing purchases, it’s important to take your time and allocate enough time, perhaps more than one day. Choose several models, do not be afraid to take a fitting room for a long time. And it is better that a faithful friend was present nearby, or even two who could adequately appreciate the outfit. If you do not know where to start, then pick up 3-4 basic things of a classic style. It is important that they can be combined with each other. They can always be diversified with fashionable additions. The more restrained the basic clothes, the brighter the accessories and add-ons can be. This will draw attention to the image and make it fashionable. And vice versa, the brighter things are, the more restrained it is necessary to supplement them, or even not to use jewelry.
Laconicism and simplicity are friends of stylish modern girls. Try not to overload the image by putting on all the best at once. Use to the extent and to the place accessories and decorations. It is also important to observe neatness, accuracy in clothes. If the fabric provides for ironing, do not be lazy to do this, and your neat image will delight not only those around you, but also you in the mirror.
Girl's environment
Beautiful modern girls and around create a beautiful stylish atmosphere. This desire is understandable. The vocation to decorate the interior, to make the living space cozy and its design for modern girls is formed in early childhood.
Do not assume that the girl's room should be done only in pink colors. This stereotype is a thing of the past. The room of a modern girl must meet many requirements. This is the main place for study and hobbies, meetings with friends, relaxation and sleep. How to observe all these functions in a modern room for a girl?
First you need to decide on the general style of the interior, which must be taken into account based on the lifestyle and preferences. A romantic and dreamy girl will prefer a gentle style of French Provence, “tear-off”, loving rock, choose a modern style of glam rock, a practical lady may like the style of Japanese minimalism, etc.
Having decided on the modern style of the room for the girl, it will be useful to divide the room into functional zones. The training part or zone for the dressing table is best placed closer to the window, since daylight is necessary for these processes. If space allows, it is better to put a bed in the center, and hang a TV on the wall opposite. If the room is small, it is better to use a transforming sofa, on which you can sit with friends in an assembled form.
But the main place in the room of a modern girl belongs to the wardrobe. You need to choose it carefully, providing convenient and roomy shelves. In extreme cases, you can use the services of firms engaged in the manufacture of custom-made furniture. Such a company will help you make a convenient closet and not clutter up the space.
Modern Girl's Day
In the crazy stream of modern life, we all lack time, and especially girls may miss it. How to do everything and find time for the above-mentioned searches for style, personal care, self-development, relationships with a loved one, combine all this with study or work?
In order not to be in constant stress due to chronic time pressure, you need to plan your day in advance, making a list of specific cases. And you will be pleasantly surprised by the fact that you manage to carve out for yourself 30-40 minutes, or even more. Spend them going to the gym, meeting your loved one, a beauty salon, or reading a good book. Do not waste your time talking on the phone with a girlfriend or hanging out on social networks. Spend valuable time for your own benefit.
When going to the store, a pre-compiled list of products and goods will help to save time. In addition, such a list will save your budget from unnecessary expenses. You can take into account time management tips.
What should be a girl
Probably, each generation is inherent in disputes about how a modern girl should be in order to meet the requirements of current life. It is impossible to unequivocally answer this question, but there are several unshakable rules, answering which, the girl will be modern at all times.
First of all, it is the mind. Having mind and erudition will never hurt. This is surprising, but the well-read and educated girl is read in her eyes, makes her look beautiful and attractive to men and others.
A commitment to a healthy lifestyle. HLS - now it is at the peak of popularity. Quitting smoking, alcohol, consuming low-fat wholesome food and attending sports training is the main trend in modern life for both boys and girls.
The next rule is beauty and grooming. A well-groomed appearance will definitely bring you beauty and a sense of confidence. One without the other is impossible.
A modern girl should be punctual and respect the time of other people who will definitely appreciate it. Courtesy and knowledge of etiquette will not interfere.
Other internal features that are obligatory for a girl are kindness and sympathy. These are some of the main human feelings that help make the brutal modern world a better place. Unfortunately, many modern girls do not consider it necessary to show kindness, sympathy and care.
Femininity is also important. Feminism did not solve all women's problems, but even, on the contrary, added. Men and boys do not like overly feminized girls. As many great people have said, the strength of a woman is in her weakness. Femininity should be present in the girl both in the external style (it is worth giving preference to feminine images) and in behavior (a soft and wise girl will always be appreciated).
Types of girls
Throughout life, a woman is destined to try on several roles. They may change in accordance with the change of life periods, and may not change if a woman is happy with everything. Consider several vivid portraits of the characters of girls. Perhaps their description will be exaggerated, so do not take them too seriously:
- Girl athlete. This lady prefers sportswear, she will never miss a lesson in the fitness center. She easily agrees to go ice-skating and skiing in the winter, and in the summer to ride several kilometers by bicycle. Her smartphone definitely has a pedometer and sports apps at home. He prefers boiled chicken breast and protein shakes in food.
- Intellectual girl. A lover of prose and poetry, as well as the TV channel Culture, loves to visit museums and exhibitions. Such a modern girl in films prefers the old classics, you can’t lure her into watching new items. She does not know about many modern things, perhaps she does not even have a page on social networks. She will be very surprised that you do not know Kant's works, and may stop communicating with you after that.
- Glamorous girl. Knows all fashion trends. He reads, or rather looks through, only gloss. Before going to the store for bread can apply makeup for two hours. Devotes one day a week to going to a beauty salon. Periodically sits on diets. In her house all around hang their own photos of such a modern girl.
- And also - a friend girl, a party girl, a culinary girl, a business girl … And many other types of modern girls. No need to classify yourself or your friend to any pure type. Each modern woman can combine several types, several roles.
Girls in a relationship
The relationship of modern guys and modern girls sometimes does not add up due to many factors. A young lady may not like that a guy devotes too much time to computer games, but he, for example, may not like endless diets, constant selfie photos of a modern girl, and so on. But still, what kind of girls can be in a relationship? Here are a few examples:
- Bitch Girl. Not only does not put a man, but also other people around. Always acts in his own way and is very self-serving. Fortunately, this type is rare, although many impose it. Such behavior of a girl is fraught with her loneliness.
- Mother girl. She is very caring, sometimes even unnecessarily, will often worry about her man. She always has order in the house and dinner on the stove. But now, having thoroughly washed the floors, sometimes he forgets to take off his housecoat and put himself in order. The danger here is not only that such a lady will cease to be attractive in the eyes of her chosen one. A guy can get used to doing nothing, some even stop working and just sit at home on everything ready. Of course, such a situation is unacceptable.
- Jealous girl. Calls his man, despite the fact that he asks not to call in the middle of the working day. Checks the phone and pages on social networks. If he cannot verify them, he thinks that the man is definitely unfaithful. With such a girl, a trip to any public place ends in a quarrel, because she does not like the way he looked at this or that representative of the weaker sex.
- Very romantic. It is easy for such a girl to make surprises, the main thing is that they should be romantic. Even congratulating a modern girl on her birthday, you can give her a flower from a city flower bed and observing the night starry sky. The main thing is to remember the date of meeting, the first kiss, the first date and so on. Romantic ladies may be touchy, but next to an attentive man they are truly happy.
