Why are the qualities of men more concerned with women? After all, it is no secret that the "powers" of this world also dream of being like the famous heroes of novels and cinema, who conquered the whole world with courage, nobility and other gentlemanly qualities.
Moreover, it is enough for men to associate themselves with those, while women certainly need to instill these book qualities of heroes into their chosen ones.
For her
Women are sure that the main feature that they themselves must possess is beauty. But to the necessary qualities, men attribute, among all others, the ability to make money. In addition, their chosen ones should also be beautiful, generous, smart, strong, and courageous.
The thing is that the concept of "ideal man" for women and men has different meanings. So, women equate the quality of the ideal man with the status of a good husband. In their opinion, the good qualities of men are those that they like. He should help around the house, prefer hunting and fishing, spending time together with her, in no case spend money on friends. It is best if he gives them to his wife for a new dress. Paradox. A woman has been looking for a good husband all her life, focusing on the best qualities of a man. But as soon as he finds him, ruthlessly destroys all those qualities that he once saw in him. Once the chosen one conquered her precisely with gallantry, but today the politeness shown by him towards an unknown lady becomes a significant reason for another scandal. So maybe, dear ladies, it is worth initially looking for an obedient husband, and not an ideal man?
Male look
According to the beliefs of the descendants of Adam, a real man is a reliable companion and a man of his word. Decency, determination, loyalty, courage, honesty - these are the qualities of a man, on the basis of which, the father brings up his son. Men's opinion on this score is more based on high moral principles, although following them is not always characteristic of modern men. In addition, they know better than women what qualities of men attract beautiful ladies. But their inherent egoism prevents them from perfecting their character for the sake of loved ones. The man sincerely believes that you need to love just like that, and not for any qualities.
And, unlike a woman who, at least for the first time, is trying to veil some of her shortcomings, the man is open. “Love me as I am, ” he says with his behavior, which women are not able to understand and appreciate. Although in their list of requirements for the chosen one, honesty and openness are not in last place.
From the foregoing, one conclusion should be drawn: the ideal man is the image that women paint for themselves in order to find a worthy life partner. And the stronger the love for a partner, the more obvious are the positive qualities of a man. As soon as the feelings cool, they mysteriously dissolve in the life of life together. It turns out that the ideal man for a woman is the one she loves. So a man, in order to meet ephemeral parameters, can only reciprocate.
