From childhood, we were taught basic social rules. We know that we must be polite and considerate. Words like “thank you”, “please” and “sorry” are irreplaceable in a person’s vocabulary. We must help those in need and show respect for the elderly. But how many of these things are actually correct?
How often do you make or demand to abandon your place? Everything is clear here, if you feel good. Many people use public transport after serious injuries and surgical interventions, as well as some diseases that impair physical ability, and they may not be visible to others.
Condemnation of passengers who do not give way
Pregnant women and mothers with children often publicly condemn men for not giving way to them. Children, as a rising generation, are traditionally taught to care for elders. So it’s quite normal to see a child standing in public transport.
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This is also a very controversial issue for pregnant women, since women have fought for so many years for the right to be treated by men on an equal footing. The passenger, whom they criticize silently or out loud, may simply be immersed in their own affairs, physically unable to stand up, or they may be convinced that they have at least the right to a seat.
Some feel awkward
At the same time, many women and older people often feel uncomfortable due to a neglecting and patronizing attitude, therefore they can perceive this noble gesture of giving way to them negatively. They may be annoyed by the need to go to the other end of a crowded bus to show appreciation to someone who does get up.
Why is it harmful for the elderly
As for the elderly, doctors believe that offering their place to them because of their age and probably poor health is not only not very ethical, but even harmful. According to doctors, older people should be encouraged to be active. It is better for them if they stand, walk up the stairs instead of the elevator, that is, move regularly.
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These simple things will lead to a certain slowdown in the aging process and help them stay in good shape, and for a long time they will not need physical and social assistance. Psychologist Lucia Suleymanova expressed a similar opinion. She appealed to the authorities with a request to stop promoting the requirement to give way to older people in public transport.
